Jenn Chenoweth: Living in the Spotlight: Navigating the Struggles of Pastor’s Kids

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Being a pastor’s kid means everyone knows your family – and everyone has expectations. Jenn Chenoweth lived this reality. As the oldest pastor’s kid, she was always at church, always watched, always expected to be the “perfect daughter.”

“I oftentimes felt I was put in positions I wasn’t ready for when I was really young,” Jenn shares. “I felt a lot of pressure at the church from people to be the perfect child.”

In this conversation, learn:

  • What it’s really like growing up in the church spotlight

  • How pastor’s kids navigate impossible expectations from childhood

  • Why the phrase “you don’t have to live under the pressure” set her free

  • The real struggles behind the “perfect pastor’s family” image

Whether you’re a pastor’s kid, ministry family member, or know someone who is – this conversation reveals the hidden challenges and offers real hope.

“You don’t have to live under the pressure. The pressure exists for sure… but you can choose not to live under the pressure.”

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About Jenn Chenoweth

Jenn Chenoweth grew up in South Florida, daughter of a pastor and a church music director. From a young age, she felt the pull toward worship and began leading in children’s ministry. Though the environment was sacred, Jenn often wrestled with internal pressure and feeling “on display.” Over time, she learned that ministry isn’t just performance. Ministry is the overflow of a healed heart.

The Struggle & Breakthrough

In 2019, Jenn Chenoweth experienced a sudden jaw-locking incident that became chronic TMJ pain for nearly two years. Singing and speaking became sources of fear. During that hard season, God drew her deeper into His love and reshaped her identity. She began to realize she wasn’t being judged, but pursued by a Father. Her pain was not punishment!

Musical Expression & Message

Her debut EP Out To Get Me released August 29, 2025, carrying the theme of God’s loving pursuit. Jenn co-penned all seven tracks, leaning into vulnerability and worship. The songs blend reflective ballads and modern anthems. Her music aims to redirect listeners from fear to freedom in Christ.

Heart & Vision

Jenn Chenoweth says she once believed God was out “to get” her; like a judge waiting to condemn. Her story now proclaims that God is “out to find, bring in, and set free.” She wants to carry hope to those crushed by religious expectations. She leads with both authenticity and passion.

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